Our Staff
Natalie Buster

Natalie Buster

Executive Director

Natalie Buster is the Executive Director of ABODE, where she has served in many roles since discovering the organization in 2022 following her mother’s death. She moved to San Antonio after a career as a professional actor in New York City. As a yoga therapist, she has been dedicated to serving people experiencing grief, loss, and those at the end of life.

Her past and current roles at ABODE include Navigator, Volunteer, Doula, Doula Director, Podcast Host, and Resident Yoga Therapist. She leads ABODE’s award-winning End of Life Doula program and designed the End of Life Yoga Certification. Natalie has woven together her love of people and the ABODE community through the contemplative arts and grief-informed practices.

Claudia Baca

Claudia Baca

End of Life Navigator

Claudia shares her calm, gentle and contemplative approach to care during our overnight shifts – typically the time most Guests pass away. She’s there to hold their hand and offer words of love and compassion and she walks them home. Claudia has been caring for people at end of life since she was 14 years old. “I was born to do this – I know I was,” Claudia says. “My experience all came together when my husband got sick last year. I knew what to do, and I was able to give him the love and care he needed most in his final days.”

Rachel Epp Miller

Rachel Epp Miller

End of Life Navigator

Rachel believes that no one should face the big thresholds/transitions of life alone. She wants to make make herself available to accompany and support those who are dying and those who love them, to enhance dignity and face the unknown with loving kindness. Rachel is an ABODE Doula.
Jazz Phillips

Jazz Phillips

End of Life Navigator

I am Jazz Phillips. I come to this work as a South Asian woman who has lived in eight countries. I have accompanied six family members through death — including dressing and beautifying my aunt hours after she passed.

Through a life lived across borders, I’ve come to appreciate the role cultural practices and rituals can play in holding and processing grief. My background as an educator and therapist has given me the capacity to listen deeply and sit with what cannot be fixed.

I walk alongside the guests and families at ABODE with all that I am.

Jerry Romero Jr.

Jerry Romero Jr.

Resident Doula

My name is Jerry Romero Jr., and I am an end-of-life death doula based in San Antonio, Texas, offering compassionate, non-medical support to individuals and families navigating dying, death, and remembrance.

My work is grounded in presence, dignity, and care, while also being deeply shaped by my spiritual practices, including ritual, prayer, ancestral connection, and traditions that honor death as sacred transition. As a PhD scholar, my research explores the way social systems shape how we understand life, death, and the body, which deeply informs my approach to being a death doula.

In addition to my doula practice, I am deeply committed to expanding death literacy and community care, including my work through the SATX Queer Deathcare Collective. I approach this work with tenderness, cultural humility, and a deep respect for each person’s unique journey.

Courtney Sheets

Courtney Sheets

End of Life Navigator

Through the deaths of both of her parents and close loved ones, Courtney came to realize that denying the inevitable and failing to plan for it makes the end more stressful and painful than necessary. This period gave her the experience of designing home funerals and seeing the opportunity for bringing people together in a sacred and connecting way. It catalyzed a desire to help shift taboos around the death conversation and expand her knowledge of what it means to be “death-positive.”

Courtney is certified as an End of Life Death Doula through Alua Arthur’s Going with Grace program and began volunteering at ABODE in 2023. She specializes in end-of-life planning for all ages and helping families wrap up affairs after the death of a loved one.

John Vinson

John Vinson

End of Life Navigator

John has been with ABODE since the beginning. His love and attentive care for our Guests is a living example of our mission, vision and values. Some of John’s empathy for hospice patients and their families comes from his personal experience of caring for his first wife who died over 20 years ago from cancer, leaving John a grieving widower with their children – the youngest a six-month-old infant. John has dedicated more than 35 years of his life serving others globally through mission and non-profit work. His experience with caring for people in medically fragile situations as well as at the end of their lives since the mid-1980s has helped to shape him into a valuable asset to our team at ABODE. John is an ABODE Doula and Certified Grief Educator.

Kristy Wagner

Kristy Wagner

Volunteer Coordinator

By holding space with kindness and presence, I affirm my sacred duty to guide each soul with love, through the gateway of life’s final chapter. I believe that the final chapter of life should be met with love, dignity and profound respect for each person’s wishes, ensuring their legacy is thoughtfully honored and celebrated, reflecting the deep reverence they merit in their final moments.

Along with her ABODE Doula work, Kristy is an Integrative Wellness & Conscious Transformation coach. She specializes in possession planning and organization, companion care, vigil planning and advance end-of-life planning.

Kristy lives in San Antonio and is open to serving the north and northwest side and surrounding hill country.

Photos by Lynn Perez, The Parting Planner